Cheating is now very common in most relationships, but there are some things you need to observe ,to know if your partner or spouse is cheating on you.

1.Pay Attention to Changes In the Normal Routine of Your Spouse

Is he or she, for instance, coming home from work later than usual on some nights?or not being where he or she suppose to be on a normals. Sometimes these small changes to a person’s routine mean nothing more than life has given them a reason to be unavailable, but they are still something that you want to be aware of.

2.Know If Your Spouse Has Stopped Talking to You 

Did your significant other always have things to say, and has suddenly become distant? Your relationship may be losing intimacy because your lover has started a new one with someone else.

3.Know If He or She Have Become moody Suddenly,  and Eager to Start Fight

Sometimes, a cheating lover will displace his or her shame, anger, and guilt onto you by starting a fight, which can then be blamed on you. In short, they need a place to throw off their negative feelings.

4.Consider If Your Spouse Smells Different When they Come Close to You 

Everyone knows this one is stereotypical but it can also be true. If he or she is coming around smelling like a perfume or aftershave that you don’t wear, then he or she has been too close to someone who wears it.

5.Pay Attention to Changing Interest, Like Music,Books,Movies,e.t.c.

When someone spends enough time with someone else, they begin to adopt their views, or at least understand them. If your boyfriend or girlfriend is interested in things that they hated before, perhaps they are being influenced by someone else more than usual.

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6.Examine The Trust In Your Relationship 

Does your lover allow you to touch, or look through their phone, emails, etc.? If your boyfriend or girlfriend is hiding their phone from you, or deleting all their messages before letting you have it, then there is something they don’t want you to see.

7.Notice If They Leave the Room to Take Calls

If you ask whom called or texted them, do they always tell you “It’s nobody?” These are also important signals, which show that your boyfriend, girlfriend, etc. has something to hide.

8.Watch Carefully for The Unwillingness to Accept You Without Notice

Does he or she become angry when you come over unannounced, or only text you when they are at home, never calling you? These are also signs of betrayal. For some reason, they do not want you at their home at certain times, and they do not want to call you while they are at home.

9.Know If Your Partner is Putting Someone else Down

They may be saying awful things about that person, but pay attention to the fact that they are still talking about them 24/7. They are trying to fool you into believing the person is undesirable, thus throwing the suspicion off them.

10.Catch Them In a Lie

Casually ask a boyfriend or girlfriend where they were such and such day, and let them answer. Remember their answer, and ask again a few days later. If they are lying constantly, then they will have a hard time keeping up. They may start to get angry with these simple questions, another big hint.

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11.Find out If They Have Additional Online Accounts

If they begin to, out of nowhere, change their passwords to keep you out of their accounts. Normally, if they didn’t give you their password to start with, this is no problem. But if they’ve suddenly changed it to protect messages they’ve written, or chats they’ve had, you should be alert to this possible red flag.

12.Know If His or Her Friends are Acting Differently Towards You 

Have his or her friends begun to act oddly around you? When you casually talk to his friends, do they seem anxious, nervous, or eager to leave? They probably know something you don’t know.

13.If Your Partner Starts Casually Mentioning an End to The Relationship

Questions such as “What would you do if we broke up?” are key hints to know if he or she is tired of the relationship and wants to break up.


The Truth about relationship is that, it’s  not everybody that cheats ,so if you are suspecting your partner of cheating on you,the best thing to do is to follow up these tips and you will eventually find out.

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